You can call me "K"

I created this blog because I've always been a confidante for all of my close friends; giving them advice, always being the ear they need to listen or shoulder to lean on, and now I want to be that for all of you. Everyone needs someone to talk and/or vent to, but unfortunately, not everyone has an unbiased, judgement free friend... until now. I am here to help those of you who visit, with any concerns: lifestyle or love/relationship related, or even if you just need to vent and want light shed on your situation from someone with another perspective.

Creating this blog was very important to me being someone who knows how it feels to be alone contemplating the events of my life, not knowing who or if I have someone to turn to to, so I want to be for you, the person I myself, needed.

This blog is also a place I use to express my thoughts and opinions on several topics I witness and experience in my personal life, through my friends, social media, or in the world, and as an insight into my mind and how I handle things, I would love for you to read.

Thank you for visiting and ttyl.

Spotlight! Check out the latest:

Beauty & Style

My Flawless
Face Make-up Essentials

My overall make-up regimen has changed so much. I'm always swapping out products, textures and tools constantly, trying to find the perfect products for me, in order to have a flawless beat. My skin is oily, sensitive and prone to breakouts so it's been tough, but I feel I've pretty much have narrowed it down to a few products that're essential for my flawless beat....

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Personal

IMG_1325[1019].JPG — Who She? Part III- An Ambivert

The beginning of August brought me a new outlook on my social interactions by way of my ex-boyfriend and friend, Marquette.

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Testimonials

jayla**2@gmail.com:

"Your advice has helped me greatly! Although, I haven’t reached out in a bit your advice helped me reevaluate myself and the choices I made in past situations. I appreciate you for taking the time out and offering advice to me especially when there were times I didn’t know who to vent to or talk to. Thank you for your continued efforts in helping others and giving us an opportunity for our voices to be heard. Thank you again and I hope to talk to you soon!"

chelseap******94@yahoo.com"

"You helped me get through some of the hardest situations that I have ever been faced with. You helped me see that these situations don’t define me, it’s just a lesson learned. Your advice helped me change my entire outlook on my life. I lost over 60 pounds and will be graduating college in May. Keep doing what your doing because it’s working. Thank you"

**naibu**@gmail.com

"I have written in multiple times because my life is a mess LOL. There are times where I don't know what I should do about a boyfriend or a best friend and then I'm like "OK what would candidlyK do??" So I just write in for some advice and my questions are always like paragraphs on top of paragraphs of me giving you background information, trying to tell you the whole story so you get it and of course you always do lol.

I once wrote in about a boyfriend or well, ex-boyfriend and it was my first time writing in and I was nervous because I'm telling a complete stranger my personal problems. But I didn't feel judged or dumb instead the advice I got back made me feel like I was in the kitchen talking to one of my close friends and drinking tea while spilling the tea OK! Lol

I'm sure I'm going to have more shenanigans come my way and like always I will turn to candidlyk for the best advice.

Thank you for all your advice I don't know you personally, but I feel like I do and in my head we are great friends! Lol

Sincerely -Nai"